Today’s manifestation tip is inspired by a conversation that I had with a good friend on my birthday.
Let me share this true story that happened on July 16 with you…
Why Waiting for your Person is Wrong when Manifesting
I went out for an Asian street-food themed brunch with a close, genuine friend for my 41st birthday.
It was just the two of us and we were catching up on our latest news since we didn’t meet in a long time.
In the middle of the deep, meaningful conversations, she said a statement that stayed with me until this day.
Her exact words were: “Don’t wait. If you wait, then you’ll be waiting forever!”
Her advice was genuine and it came from her heart. As a Mindset and Manifestation coach, I knew exactly what she meant.
Using the law of attraction to manifest is really simple. You attract an energy that matches your own.
So if you are constantly waiting for a partner to truly start living and to do all of the things that you feel like doing when in a relationship, then your reality will reflect that waiting. This means that you will stay in waiting mode and won’t manifest your person.
What you could be Doing
If you’re single and are not living your life fully, then you could be doing one of two things:
- Waiting for your reality to change so you can finally do things as a couple.
- Acting as if you have a partner just to attract one but not truly living from a high vibration.
I can tell you until recently, I was living from a state of acting as if just so I can manifest my person faster. When you do things this way, your vibration is still not a match to your future self. Because you’re still trying to manifest and doing things from a place of wanting and longing.
The way you can break this pattern is to truly live your best life as if you already have your person and loving relationship.
This means doing all of the things that you would do if you were part of a couple. But doing them with an energy of flow and joy. Not from an energy of striving and forcing. And that’s the mistake that I was doing for the longest time!
How does it feel when you’re not Waiting
What I can tell you is that when I’m not waiting, then I’m just living my best life and not really thinking about my desire or when it will show up.
I’m open to synchronicity and random encounters but I’m not focused on these things happening.
I’m not in waiting mode because I’m already planning trips, social gatherings and living a fulfilling life.
The best way to describe how I feel is living from a state of flow as opposed to feeling stuck and trying to control my reality.
I don’t want anything to happen in any certain way and I’m at peace with where I am and with my life exactly as it is.
This doesn’t mean that I don’t take inspired action and follow the signs. It just means that I’m enjoying the journey and feeling good while I do these things and follow the clues. Without attaching to any specific outcome.
Now I’m curious to know, which vibration are you living from now?
Are you waiting for your person to show up? are you pretending that you’re happy? or are you truly at peace with yourself and single status?
Let me know in the comments!