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I recently wrote a blog post that talks about feeling abundance and fulfilled when manifesting a relationship. And how manifesting from an energy of lack only attracts more of that ‘not having’ into your reality.
Today, I want to share another very important love manifestation tip. Let me explain how it works.
How I used to feel when manifesting
In the past, I was manifesting from the energy of wanting and desperation. I hated being single and all I wanted was to be in companionship and to have a partner.
I even had a psychic tell me in 2016 that she felt that I’m in the energy of ‘wanting’ and this is blocking my dream life and person.
Of course, when you’ve been chronically single, it’s not easy to shift from this ‘wanting’ vibration into ‘trusting’ and having everything that you desire.
Another example of how I was manifesting from wanting and desperation is when I was out for dinner with a friend once. We were at a Japanese restaurant that had a wish tree. This is a fun concept in many Asian restaurants, where you get to write your wishes on a piece of paper and hang it on the tree.
At that time, my friend and I got so excited and went on to write our dream life wishes in the present tense (as if they already happen). We thought that we were being smart and using the law of attraction the right way 🙂
The truth is that as long as you’re in the vibration of ‘wanting’ and trying to manifest something, then you’re not a match to it. In other words, if you’re seeking and wanting, then your vibration is not aligned with already having your dream life and person.
Because if you already had your dream life and person, you would be living life to the fullest and feeling good and alive.
Basically, you wouldn’t be writing your wish for that dream life/person on a card and then hanging it on a wish tree 🙂
How I feel now
When my dad was in town a few weeks ago, we went out for lunch at a Chinese restaurant which also has a wish tree. At the end of the meal, they gave out two cards for us to write our wishes and hang them on the tree in the middle of the restaurant. I simply took the cards as souvenirs and I have them hanging on my vision board wall.
When you’re living from the energy of trusting that your person is on their way to you, you don’t invest in trying to make anything happen. You simply live your best life, feel good while doing so and trust that everything is unfolding in your highest good.
These days, I feel like I’ve made peace with being single and am living without looking for my person, wanting anything or trying to manifest. I’m simply being my true self.
Life flows with so much ease from this vibration. There’s no resistance or desperation. Everything feels aligned and easy.
Apart from making peace with being single, I’m making future travel plans for solo trips and simply enjoying my life exactly as it is. I’m not living from the energy of ‘wanting’ because I truly feel like I have everything and that I’m whole and complete.
Stay tuned for more manifestation techniques in a future blog post and let me know: Are you manifesting from an energy of ‘wanting’ or ‘trusting’?