Life Updates
Happy February one! I hope that you had a great start to the year so far.
What are your goals for this month? What do you plan to do differently? Check out last week’s Thursday Thoughts blog post for some goal-setting inspiration.
What I shared in the post is actually connected to what I want to say next. A few minutes before writing this post, I remembered that I’ll be buying myself flowers again this month! Needless to say, this thought is so depressing, and I didn’t want to let the emotion fully sink in!
And because I’m still single and buying myself peach roses yearly, I decided to sign up to a new matchmaking agency as a paid member. You can read more about this decision here.
My main goal for February is to go back to watching makeup tutorials and practising makeup. I was hoping to do that while in Bali for six months. But I only started, and then the humidity got the best of me!
I think that this month will be the month that I commit to practising makeup skills, even if I don’t go out. I really want to learn how to apply makeup the right way.
What about you? What are your main February goals?
Why Role Models Are Important
What I mean by role models is a couple who are in a healthy and loving relationship. Sounds like a fairytale, right?
Well, if you’re like me, then you were raised by parents who were not in a healthy and loving relationship, and this hugely impacted your view of the world and manifested your own happy ending.
But since we’re all adults here, we need to stop blaming our parents and do the work to heal and manifest our dream lives.
I never saw a healthy and loving relationship in my family or extended family.
When you don’t know what this type of connection looks like or even how it feels, it can be very challenging to manifest a loving relationship for yourself.
What I Manifested in Bali
It’s a long story, but I met a young Balinese couple who were connected to one of my Indonesian friends. Remember, you’re already on the bridge of events for manifesting your dream life and person. You’re not aware of it.
The couple are the parents of four-year-old Gladis, who I mentioned in previous stories from Bali.
They were the perfect example of a responsible couple in a healthy and loving relationship.
No words can describe how grateful I am for meeting them on my last trip to Bali.
When spending time at their home, I could see and feel what a healthy home environment actually looks like.
Before this experience, I never really witnessed a healthy and happy home.
Being surrounded by their three kids when we were out and about was such a blessing.
For the first time in my life, I felt like I love children and the idea of having children became something I would consider.
Finding Role Models: A Summary
The main point of this story is to encourage you to find healthy and ideal role models in your own environment. I can’t tell you how important this can be for manifesting your dream life.
Maybe you need to look harder. Just set a clear intention that you want to manifest your person and heal. Then, the Universe will show you the way.
Let me know your thoughts in the comments about this topic and whether you have healthy role model couples in your life.
Love,
Leela