My most important non-negotiable in a partner is someone who is street-wise and life-smart.
Although this was always a priority on my soulmate wish list, I wasn’t really living from that place myself until recently.
After doing inner child work in the winter of 2019, I spent a lot of time processing the work and not really living fully.
In addition to that, the pandemic started in 2020 and I was spending most of my days at home.
What this meant was that I wasn’t living from a state of being an energetic match to my person.
When manifesting anything, the most important rule is that you can only attract what’s part of who you are in essence.
You can read this blog post about this main law of attraction principle.
Step Out of Your Comfort Zone
Since it’s Wellness Wednesday, I wanted to remind you to do things that would make you step out of your comfort zone.
It’s not only because this is how you can manifest clues and signs about your dream life and partner, it’s because living from routine isn’t helpful for your wellbeing and mental health.
I personally do simple things each day that make me step out of my comfort zone. They don’t have to be huge things.
Simple things like visiting a new cafe or restaurant and maybe getting work done while you’re there.
I recently read a post in a Facebook group for single women and a lady posted that she just started going to cafes alone.
Another one said that she plans to start doing that as part of her organic dating strategy.
I find it interesting that these women are just starting to do these things and live their best life. Mainly because I always visit cafes solo – even without my laptop!
I actually love going to different cafes and occasionally having breakfast while I’m out.
Do One New Thing Everyday!
I want you to start doing one new thing each day for 30 days – even if it’s walking down a new route or exploring a new neighborhood.
Let me know how you feel and what clues or signs you manifest.