Who Else is Tired of Using the Law of Attraction to Manifest Love?
I will tell you that I’m honestly feeling depleted from doing the manifestation work to attract a relationship with no results. I’ve been using LOA to manifest a relationship since around 2018 or 2017. Maybe even earlier, I can’t remember.
What I noticed is that it’s so easy for me to manifest literally everything, from the small stuff to bigger things like a book coach/editor and graphic designer.
You name it, I can manifest it with so much ease and confidence.
The only thing that I’m struggling to manifest is a relationship or even dates! Although I follow the same process for manifesting everything else, this is the only area in my life that I struggle with when it comes to manifestation.
Even my friend Vanessa asked me recently: “Do you still believe in the law of attraction and you think it works?!”
Vanessa and I did a manifestation ritual at a Bali beach back in 2019 and I mention the story in my ebook – get it here.
You would think that I would give up and assume that the law of attraction isn’t working. But that’s not the case, because the law of attraction works for me every single time and it never fails me!
Why is Manifesting Love so Challenging?
The fact is that the Universe is always saying yes to your thoughts and beliefs. So if you’re constantly focusing on the lack of a relationship – which is what I tend to do all the time- the Universe says yes to that as well and gives you exactly that – the lack.
The Universe never says no to your thoughts. That’s why you’re creating the reality based on your thoughts and beliefs.
A few months ago, I was going through the blog posts in my first ever blog and I noticed that the word ‘single’ was being repeated throughout the posts.
As I was scrolling down the blog posts’ page, I could see the word “single” in almost every paragraph!
That’s when I realized that my focus was always on the lack of a relationship instead of feeling like I already have it.
Practical Tip
There are so many manifestation methods out there and I think you should choose the one that resonates with you the most.
If you struggle with the concept of “feeling as if you already have your desire – the relationship”, I can recommend this tip that I recently started doing.
Record a short video of yourself talking as if you already have the relationship of your dreams. Share about how you feel as your future self who’s already in that ideal, loving relationship.
Watch this video as many times as you like throughout the day. I personally only watch it before going to bed (and I don’t even do this each night).
What I noticed is that after watching the video, I instantly feel good and like I truly have my man and relationship!
Try this tip and let me know how you feel and what your favorite manifestation method is.
The idea is to focus on the future timeline so much that your mind and energy shifts to match that future reality.
Love,
Leela
